Sarasota National Cemetary  

Ina Gross Justice Project

Ina Gross Justice Project



Tom j Gross  wrote:


"Unfortunately, I find myself in the difficult and unusual position that ending my life is the best, and most loving, action I can take on behalf of my family. 


Please allow me to explain.


First, I am healthy and happy. I suffer from no serious disease that I'm aware of, and I'm neither depressed nor unhappy.


I love life. I love nature. I love my wife, and my children, and my parents, and myself.


I love the "miracle" of life. (I use this word inaccurately, as I do not believe in God, or heaven or hell, or any miraculous works of God. 





I love that we love dogs, and that they in turn love us.

I love the fact that women are caring and sexy.


But unfortunately, and here is the tragic and tearful and painful rub, this just isn't the case. I do have responsibilities. And however well I may (or God forbid, may not) be fulfilling my responsibilities as a father, I'm failing terribly in the most important responsibility of all—to provide.



So, without going through any numbers, here are the ugly facts.


I have no more money, and I have no ability to borrow any money. I have known for almost a year when this day was coming, and now it is here.

Also, I have a lot of debts.

Also, I have lots and lots of life insurance, which means that if I die, then there will be a fair amount of money not only to pay off my debts...



(Picture to the left: Healthy and Happy Tom J Gross)





Finally, I have a problem with my most important life insurance policy. Specifically, because I've borrowed heavily against it, this policy requires a lot of money monthly (about $2,000) just to maintain itself. Were the policy to collapse, then A) I would no longer have "lots and lots" of life insurance, and therefore I wouldn't be able to provide for my loved ones; and B) the collapse of the policy would result in about a $240,000 non-cash capital gain, which means about a $60,000 tax burden (or more) to the government.


Since I don't have $60,000 then clearly the government would attempt to take my apartment and my car and whatever. The bottom line is that not only, as indicated above, would I have so much less for my loved ones... 


So, the financial decision is clear. Either I remain alive, and the policy collapses, so that there is much less money (I mean MUCH less money) available if/when I should pass away, AND there is the risk that we will lose our apartment, OR I do what I'm supposed to do, which is to provide for my loved ones.


Unfortunately for me, providing for you requires my death.

I don't like this fact, but it is inescapable."


A pathological liar as in you are not concerned with the difference between truth or falsehood. You do not distinguish between fact and fantasy. Your lying is a disaease.


ep·i·logue I :


Expect that knock on your door anytime now Tom J "Tombo" Gross if it has not come already! Wish we could be there to witness your reaction, but then again we will see you soon enough in Manatee County. How is that blood pressure, gout and acute paranoia! We know that within your convoluted thought process you are wondering is this a bluff or wishful thinking? Time will tell. Tom, it does not matter how many times you stare at the web pages; the images, messages and results are always the same as will be your prison sentence. 


You cannot escape responsibility for the murder charge by loitering in a "remote" area, the authorities know where you are, as do we. To quote you, Tom "TOMBO" Gross: "... But unfortunately, and here is the tragic and tearful and painful rub, this just isn't the case. I do have responsibilities. And however well I may (or God forbid, may not) be fulfilling my responsibilities as a father, I'm failing terribly in the most important responsibility of all—to provide... (Aside: No Shit)  Unfortunately, I find myself in the difficult and unusual position that ending my life is the best, and most loving, action I can take on behalf of my wife, and my three children." How Pathetic you are. 


It's no secret that no one could see or hear you Tom when he walked into the room, you were eclipsed by the power of his infinite light, you are a distant wannabe.  We will never forget the look of abject sadness in his eyes whenever your name came up. So have you lost your nerve?   You never acquired dignity so it should not be that difficult. Take a deep breath stop whining, one more look at the animated stock market ticker you have been staring at for years, like a deer in the headlights,  and do it you imbecile. You are still in the red, you are covered in red, you cower in red and will continue to be in the red even when you check out!


ep·i·logue II :


When did Thomas "Tommy the Ripper" Gross begin his tormented journey? And when did those around him begin to experience his extreme antisocial attitudes, behavior and his lack of conscience? Tom J Gross, of Herzliya, Israel was born on April 16, 1954 according to the first degree murder warrant issued for his arrest in the State of Florida vs Thomas J Gross. Former childhood friends remember Tom as being naive, arrogant, evasive, and a simple asshole & a fool. "Tommy j Gross was all about Tommy Gross, a  whacky son of a bitch, his tirades bordered on the inane or the insane", Tom was a different kind of stupid  recalled another friend from Bowdoin College, "totally incoherent and laughable except the time he bitch slapped a girlfriend for no apparent reason. Tom has never won at anything in life. An example of Tom's  buf·foon·er·y was his playing the community shill, like a flatulent organ grinder, toiling with a massive load of loose kaka in his Lederhosen while trying to nudge his monkey to perform a trick for an amused crowd, he would taunt his son, who was two years old at the time, to spell Katmandu, all for a bit of laughter. It was all about appearance, Tom wanted the audience to believe he was brilliant, sadly he is a loser, a bottom feeder, a shill trying to make a dime when, in our  educated opinion, he had failed beyond comprehension so many times. " So it is fair to conclude that between his birth, early childhood and the time he bitch slapped his girlfriend, manifestations of behavior that, in our educated opinion, fit a sociopath's profile began to appear. He is a black hole of human emotion. 


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